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April 16, Contrary to popular belief, platonic friendships between men and women exist.

Think about how you are with your friends: You tell each other everything. Are there things you keep secret from your partner? You look forward to being together.

Are there times you dread spending time with your partner? You freely give your time, energy and attention to your friends.

Do you do the same with your partner? We should be giving our relationship partners the same kind of support we give our friends. We rarely criticize our friends or put them Waterville women for sex in public, and we criendship take our time to listen to them and understand their perspective, even if we think they're wrong.

There must be a balance between the likability and desirability factors. When you already have a history of friendship, of doing favors for each other just because you want to, you can easily consciously pull back a little bit to make room for some of that passion and desire to grow.